test: fixup test failures on linux (#49059)

* test: fixup spec runner to properly fail on linux when tests fail

* test: fixup dbus tests

* test: disable context menu spellcheck tests on linux

https://github.com/electron/electron/pull/48657 broke those tests
(cherry picked from commit cc3c999148)

* test:rebuild native modules

(cherry picked from commit bb8e2a924b)

* fix: wait for devtools blur event in focus test to avoid race condition

(cherry picked from commit 6fd2575cbc)

* fix: wait for devtools blur event in focus test to avoid race condition

(cherry picked from commit ea830139af)

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Co-authored-by: Alice Zhao <alicelovescake@anthropic.com>

package.json

@@ -135,12 +135,20 @@
       "node script/gen-libc++-filenames.js"
     ]
   },
+  "resolutions": {
+    "dbus-native/xml2js": "0.5.0",
+    "abstract-socket": "github:deepak1556/node-abstractsocket#928cc591decd12aff7dad96449da8afc29832c19",
+    "minimist@npm:~0.0.1": "0.2.4"
+  },
   "packageManager": "yarn@4.11.0",
   "workspaces": [
     "spec",
     "spec/fixtures/native-addon/*"
   ],
   "dependenciesMeta": {
+    "abstract-socket": {
+      "built": true
+    },
     "dugite": {
       "built": true
     }