chore: bump node to v24.13.1 (main) (#49744)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v24.13.1

* chore: fixup patches

refs:
* https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/60425
* https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/61270
* https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/61044

* fix: generate_config_gypi needs to generate valid JSON

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/60794

* doc: align Buffer.concat documentation with behavior

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/60405

* src: fix off-thread cert loading in bundled cert mode

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/60764

* build: fix extraneous includes

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Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

script/node-disabled-tests.json

@@ -70,6 +70,7 @@
   "parallel/test-tls-multi-pfx",
   "parallel/test-tls-no-cert-required",
   "parallel/test-tls-no-sslv23",
+  "parallel/test-tls-off-thread-cert-loading",
   "parallel/test-tls-options-boolean-check",
   "parallel/test-tls-passphrase",
   "parallel/test-tls-psk-alpn-callback-exception-handling",