feat: add new nativeTheme API (#19656)

* feat: add new nativeTheme API

* chore: deprecate and clean up old systemPreferences theme APIs in favor of new nativeTheme module

* chore: clean up and deprecate things per feedback

* chore: add tests for deprecate and clean up invert impl

* build: when is a boolean not a boolean???

lib/common/api/module-list.js

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@
 module.exports = [
   { name: 'clipboard', loader: () => require('./clipboard') },
   { name: 'nativeImage', loader: () => require('./native-image') },
+  { name: 'nativeTheme', loader: () => require('./native-theme') },
   { name: 'shell', loader: () => require('./shell') },
   // The internal modules, invisible unless you know their names.
   { name: 'deprecate', loader: () => require('./deprecate'), private: true }